From decades of observation, it seems feminists and third wave feminism have been tearing at the fabric of our society that makes any society “civil” towards one another. Do I open the door for her or risk getting a nasty look. Do I approach her to strike up a casual conversation or do I get the “creep, get away” nasty look. Do I help her or get accused of harassment. Do I or don’t I? Eh, why bother! I’ll just be on my way, it’s easier. Perfect example, a guy can open the door for another guy if they happen to be going into a store at the same time and usually the response is, “After you ...” (“Thank you.”) Gee, that wasn’t so hard. But try offering to do something kind for a woman today and you’re risking your life, career, bank account, social status, ... all for offering to take 5 seconds out of your day to do something nice for someone (particularly a woman) and then risk them screaming bloody murder or worse, getting offended adding, “I can get my own door, thank you.” Sheesh! You’re with me on this, right? I just shake my head at what’s going on today. 

The problem with TOXIC, third-wave feminism for most people, men in particular, is that it paints men as monsters, rapists, sexual predators and more, which is not true at all. For those men who are, they’re caught, hopefully, tried and put in jail for a period of time. ALL MEN being monsters is the first LIE. Feminists instill in women daily across the airwaves of TV, print, radio, media, in our schools, and on the Internet. Okay, two can play that game. It’s easy in today’s world (for men) to think that all women are bat sh** crazy, because they can’t make up their minds as to how they want (men) to treat them. So, “BYE,” says men. Now, guess who loses in that scenario the MOST? Women! Keep reading ... 

As a result of women’s conditioned nastiness and toxic hostility toward men, men are choosing to check out in droves, not wanting anything to do with women anymore. That goes for dating, relationships, marriage, even working with them is a no-no or helping (mentoring) women .. Uh, NO WAY! It’s now the “Pence Rule” everywhere men go. (Vice President Mike Pence says that he avoids any appearance of impropriety by never dining or having drinks alone with a woman other than his wife.) While never being alone with a person of the opposite sex is an effective way to avoid both harassment and accusations of that behavior, Pence’s approach has been widely criticized as unfairly limiting mentoring and networking opportunities for women. Well, boohoo! 

Gee, sorry ladies, you somewhat allowed all this to escalate. Now, your relations between you and men are made. As the saying goes, “You’ve made your bed, now lie in it.” Men are simply “going their own way” (MGTOW) to protect themselves and create an atmosphere of peace and harmony devoid of women’s state of confusion and potential for interaction among unknown toxic female hostility. Isn’t it funny? And then women wonder where have all the good men gone? You’ve scared them away, ladies! But, do women make that connection? I wonder.