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M.G.T.O.W. (Men Going Their Own Way) — New Book By Bart Smith Examines Why More Men Are Opting Out Of Modern Dating
Author argues that many men still want love, marriage, and family—but changing social norms, dating-app dynamics, and perceived social risks are pushing some to focus on personal goals instead. Smith calls for an honest, solutions-oriented conversation.
Las Vegas, NV – September 3, 2025 — Entrepreneur and author Bart Smith announces the release of M.G.T.O.W. (Men Going Their Own Way): Why So Many Men Want Nothing To Do With Women Any More & Why Women, Companies & Governments Around The World Need To Worry About This!—a provocative, plain-spoken look at why a growing share of men are stepping back from dating and marriage to prioritize their time, money, and mental peace. The book is available now at BartSmith.com.
Smith’s core message: men still love women, still want to date, marry, and start families—but the rules of engagement feel unsettled. In chapters that cover modern courtship norms, online culture, risk management in dating, and male self-improvement, Smith explores why some men are choosing to develop hobbies, build wealth, and be more selective about relationships. He frames this as a market reality: when the “product–market fit” between men and women falters, people change their behavior—often by opting out.
“Most men want connection, commitment, and kids,” Smith says. “But many also feel today’s environment makes simple introductions and good-faith dating harder than it should be. My goal isn’t to inflame—it’s to explain what men are seeing and feeling, and invite women and men to the table for a frank, constructive dialogue.”
The broader landscape—what the research shows
Fewer singles say they’re actively looking to date than before the pandemic, especially men, according to multiple analyses from Pew Research Center. In 2023, Pew noted that a majority of single Americans weren’t seeking relationships or casual dates; earlier briefs highlighted a decline in “looking to date,” with men especially likely to say they’re not seeking. (Pew Research Center)
Perceived social risk matters. A 2022 U.S. survey reported that most men said fear of being labeled “creepy” affects how they interact with women, and nearly half said it reduces the likelihood they’ll initiate at all—shaping everyday behavior even among men who want committed relationships. (Business Wire)
Relationship patterns are in flux. While marriages rebounded in 2022 after pandemic lows, the mix of who’s partnered and how people meet continues to shift—complicating expectations on both sides. (CDC Blogs)
On MGTOW and the “manosphere”: Scholars and policy orgs increasingly study online male communities—including MGTOW—as part of a diverse ecosystem with a range of views. Recent academic work scopes this research field, and a 2025 study commissioned by Ofcom (UK) urged nuance in assessing risks and motivations across these communities. Smith’s book engages with this discourse while focusing on practical choices individual men are making. (SAGE Journals, The Guardian)
What readers will find inside
• A candid look at male priorities—time, money, reputation—and how those shape today’s courtship decisions.
• Conversation starters for couples and singles who want to rebuild trust and align on expectations about dating, marriage, and family.
• Practical guardrails for men seeking peace and productivity while remaining open to high-quality relationships.
Who should read this
• Men who feel modern dating is costly or confusing—and want a framework for choosing when and how to engage.
• Women who want a clear, unfiltered explanation of what many men say they’re thinking and why—so they can respond constructively.
• Media, educators, and policymakers tracking shifts in relationships, marriage, and family formation.
Availability
M.G.T.O.W. by Bart Smith is available now in paperback and eBook (read on Kindle Unlimited or purchase the Kindle edition). Readers can preview the table of contents and excerpts on Smith’s website (BartSmith.com) and explore related audio content on his YouTube channel.
Call to Action
Read the book, invite the debate, and book an interview. M.G.T.O.W. (Men Going Their Own Way) is available now at BartSmith.com. To schedule an interview (telephone, Zoom, in-person, or studio), use the contact below.
Author Background
Bart Smith, an entrepreneur and trainer with a keen understanding of cultural and political impacts on both men and women, specializes in teaching practical skills that help individuals create opportunities, earn income, and build confidence. Where his relationship books and work are concerned, his messages emphasizes clarity, character, communication, and common-sense strategies for thriving relationships. In addition to writing over 30 books on personal development, coaching, motivation, business growth, and lifestyle improvement—including a cookbook—he produces book videos and tutorials across his media channels. Bart adopts a DIY ethos by writing and producing all projects in-house while designing covers and websites himself. Through books, videos, workshops, and online training at BartSmith.com and his YouTube channel @BartSmithWorld, he translates complex life topics into actionable plans for immediate use. Committed to empowering individuals to take control of their lives and careers with a practical approach to confidence and clarity, he has also baked and shipped over 250,000 of his “world’s best” chocolate chip cookies nationwide while documenting 35 years of cookie research in his free chocolate chip cookie book available online.
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